ReviewsClaire Draper – Couple Counsellor Erith
“As you know Claire I have tried very hard to get over my wife’s affair. Unfortunately I haven’t been unable to forgive and forget and now know I never will. Although the whole experience has hurt like hell, I couldn’t have done it without you. You helped me through it by giving me time, patience and a different perspective. I know more about myself and relationships than I ever did before and I’m hoping one day I will see some good in what’s happened. Hopefully this will help me in my next relationship”
Steve Bennett – Relationship Counselling
“Highly recommend – I contacted Relationship Counselling Kent for an appoinment with Steve because I was concerned that my reaction to the small irritating things my partner was doing was getting out of hand. I was anxious, angry and upset on a regular basis. I tried to blame him for a while but I started to realise it was me and not him. I saw Elaine for a few months, once a week, and began to understand why I was reacting the way I was.
This understanding was half the battle, and was incredibly revealing. I learned not to let my hurt feelings turn to anger and frustration, and deal with them in a different way. I feel like my old self again now, I’m more in control of my emotions, and much happier in my relationship. Elaine was sympathetic, caring, open and I think genuinely happy for me when I started to feel better”
Jackie Hare – Couple Counselling Chatham
“It’s been good and it’s been bad………………… but knowing what we know now …. we should have done it years ago! Thank you thank you thank you!”
Maureen Fenner – Marriage Counselling Ashford
“My wife point blank refused marriage counselling at first – she saw it as admitting failure. Neither of us wanted to separate, but we knew we weren’t happy and needed something to change.
Although she was still hesitant, this felt like a more comfortable step – and it’s helped us hugely. We hadn’t even realised how stale and mundane things had become. Maureen brought a new sense of energy and understanding to our relationship. We’re now both happier, more connected, and actually looking forward to our retirement together rather than dreading it.”
Sabine Hawkins – Couple Counselling Birchington
“We procrastinated about going for relationship counselling for around 2 years. I made 3 appointments then cancelled them trying to pretend the problems were manageable and we didn’t need help. Things finally came to a head and we had no choice; either go for help or split up. My husband didn’t want to so it felt like I was dragging him along but plucking up the courage was the best thing we ever did and we wish we had done it five years ago. A
After only 2 appointments with Sabin it started to get better and then continued to grow each session after that. With our new communication skills and understanding of each other I feel like we are back in love again! I would tell anyone not to be scared or embarrassed and it is worth every penny”
Mark Reumel – Relationship Counselling Maidstone
Out of the blue, my wife told me she loved me but wasn’t in love with me anymore. It was a complete shock. I knew things hadn’t been great between us, but I had no idea it had got that bad. I persuaded her to try marriage counselling, but honestly, it was a terrible experience. The counsellor didn’t seem to really listen and even appeared to take sides. It felt dark, unhelpful, and left us both feeling worse.”
“We stopped going, and things went from bad to worse. Divorce seemed inevitable, but I wasn’t ready to give up. I found Relationship Counselling Kent through Google and booked an appointment with Mark at the Maidstone practice. It was instantly clear that his approach was completely different.
“Mark seemed to intuitively understand what was going wrong and how we might turn things around. He made space for us quickly, knowing we were at crisis point. In our first session, he challenged both of us, kindly but firmly, helping us recognise the unhelpful patterns we’d fallen into and how to start changing them.”
“Mark has been kind, understanding, but also incredibly proactive. He keeps us moving forward. We still have more sessions to go, but I genuinely believe he’s saved our marriage. Not long ago, I thought it was over. Now we’re slowly rebuilding, day by day. I can’t thank him enough for helping me save my relationship and keep my family together.”
Andrew Allan – Couple Counselling Sevenoaks
“The Irish” (ha ha ha!) cannot thank you enough for all you have done for us. It’s been a steep hill but we finally got there, we will never forget what you have done for us and all being well we won’t be back!! :))”
Daniella Smith – Marriage Counselling Aylesford
“My wife and I decided to seek Marriage Counselling Daniella after having experienced a few communication challenges. We have been married just under 2 years and really wanted to nip these issues in the bud”
“The counselling was a real revelation. The whole experience was enlightening and we both found it to be very useful. Louise had a really experienced and specialised way in helping us to approach and deal with our challenges well. It certainly wasn’t about blame or who was right or wrong, but it helped us understand how the other was feeling and how they processed thoughts”
“We had just 4 or 5 sessions and are now looking forward to a long, happy and fulfilled marriage with much-improved communication skills. Thank you Daniella! ”
Debbie Fletcher – Couple Counselling Bromley
“Relationship counselling with Debbie in Bromley was a positive experience for both of us. The initial questionnaire was a good way to get us to think deeply and try to identify issues we had and wanted to address”
“Debbie seemed to understand where each of us was coming from and tried to get us to see the other person’s point of view”
Debbie Fletcher – Relationship Help Bromley
“We felt having a space to talk in that was safe and supportive was really helpful. The sessions were very well managed and structured by Debbie Fletcher and there was an understanding and empathy with our situation which felt comforting. We were each allowed a decent time to talk and reflect”
“Thank you Debbie – you were very kind and understanding and we really appreciated the lack of judgement and desire to help us with your reflections and ideas”
