Pre-Marital Counselling? We can help

Pre-marital counselling is highly recommended – yet in the UK, many couples only seek professional help when their relationship is already under serious strain. By that point, problems have often been building for months or even years.

Pre-marital counselling – or pre-living together therapy – offers a positive, proactive way to prepare for married life or cohabiting. It gives you both the space to talk things through openly, with the guidance of a professional relationship counsellor.

Most importantly, your counsellor is not emotionally involved. This helps you both stay focused, identify areas that could become challenging in the future, and build a stronger foundation. It’s also a great way to raise awareness of common relationship pitfalls – before they become bigger issues.

How does pre-marital counselling work?

You will spend some time exploring how your relationship is right now, as well as who you are as individuals. We all change over time – and so do the feelings we have for our partner. Understanding the stages that relationships typically go through can help you adapt and grow together. You’ll also learn the importance of being open and honest, and how to express things in a way that’s more likely to be heard.

We’ll also give you practical tools to help you manage conflict as soon as it arises – because the sooner issues are addressed, the less likely they are to build into resentment or emotional distance.

Whether it’s your first time getting married or you’re making a fresh start, pre-marital counselling helps you explore your hopes, fears, and expectations around marriage or living together.

Pre-marital Counselling

The aim of pre-marital counselling

  • The aim is to create a firm foundation for dealing with arguments and differences
  • You will find out what each of you is bringing to the relationship
  • Understand each other’s needs more clearly
  • Understand and qppreciate what each of you bring to the relationship.
  • Have a safe space to explore your expectations of each other
  • In step families learn how to deal with the pull of different loyalties and demands of forming a new family with step-children

If you would like to book an appointment for pre-marital counselling please contact us at Relationship Counselling Kent Today. Request an appointment

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